Think about this!

Why do we fail most of the times in our relationships in whichever context?
Big question here but have you ever asked yourself why you meet someone and you do not like them or as you go along your relationship fades away or becomes sour?

The simple reason is that we do not take time to find out just slightly more about everything or someone. Instead we take time and energy building opinions and developing attitudes whether positive or negative. More often totals up to wrong investments on perception and therefore losses on relationships.


It takes time and efforts to get to understand someone and for someone to understand you.
This is something you will need anywhere you go until you die. We are all different, we are raised from different cultures and believe in different things but we can live in unity in our diversities.


A friend of mine likes saying that life is about perceptions however things like ethnocetrism, discrimination, racism etc are major killers of relationships, and if you practise any of them really really really you need to look at your self on the mirror and talk to you.


Life fulfilment comes when you give and all i ask of you today is to give a few minutes of your time. Get to know someone and seek to impact their lives positively. Before you conclude find out, then you can may be say "at least I tried." Always have it at the back of your mind that what goes around comes around. Life does not have short cuts but and if you tried you are getting closer to you grave earlier than you should. Same to relationships take your time to know more no short cuts, if you tried you are heading to strained relationships or even no relationships at all.


Thoughts by Sally A.

Sweet April 2007

Thank you Lord. . . . . . . . . . .for everything!

I will not say so much BUT I just want to say that April 2007 is a month I will never forget as long as I live.

I know you are curious but all I can say my friend instead of wondering what happened to me just count your blessings, name one by one and it ill surprise you what the lord has done.

God bless you all

Psalms 91

1 He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. [a]

2 I will say [b] of the LORD, "He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust."

3 Surely he will save you from the fowler's snare and from the deadly pestilence.

4 He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge;his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart.

5 You will not fear the terror of night, nor the arrow that flies by day,

6 nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness, nor the plague that destroys at midday.

7 A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will not come near you.

8 You will only observe with your eyes and see the punishment of the wicked.

9 If you make the Most High your dwelling—even the LORD, who is my refuge-

10 then no harm will befall you, no disaster will come near your tent.

11 For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways;

12 they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.

13 You will tread upon the lion and the cobra;you will trample the great lion and the serpent.

14 "Because he loves me," says the LORD, "I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name.

15 He will call upon me, and I will answer him;I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him.

16 With long life will I satisfy him and show him my salvation."